Marrieds and divorceds do you consider?

cyber sex to be porn? Because I see numerous questions from wives asking about their porn watching husbands and all the yahoo regulars who rush to defend porn. But when I ask a question about cyber sex some of the same people act like I have cooties. It seems like the marital choices are let the husband watch porn, join husband in his fantasies, or p*ssy whip him into submission and he will either secretly think his fantasies or be very careful you do not find out. I was married now divorced and would like to marry again. I just want to know what the deal is especially from you husbands.